Sex toys for men: Devices to help men explore a new world of pleasure

Clement Manyathela speaks with Dr Mpume Zenda, Sexologist and OBGYN

Listen to the interview in the audio below.

There is often shame and stigma associated with sex toys for men, and they can end up missing out as a result.

Male sex toys can not only expose the man using them to new sensations it can be an exciting and stimulating experience for both partners.

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According to Zenda, sex toys can also help men with certain sexual issues like premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction.

This is especially true as men get older and their bodies change, which can affect blood flow and stamina.

“If you only think sex is about a penis going into a vagina, you will miss out.”

- Dr Mpume Zenda, Sexologist and OBGYN

“Men don’t even know they have multiple erotic zones inside their own body.”

- Dr Mpume Zenda, Sexologist and OBGYN

Some sex toys that can enhance pleasure for men are butt plugs or anal beads, which can stimulate the prostate.

The prostate is extremely sensitive and can give an intense, full body orgasm.

Another option is a c-ring, which a man can put around the base of the penis.

If you put this on while you are still flaccid, it can restrict blood flow lightly and allow you to have a stronger and longer lasting erection.

You can also get more complex c-rings which will have vibrating parts to stimulate the prostate, the clitoris, or both at the same time.

A penile extender can be used for men who may have a smaller penis to stimulate them and their partner and allow for deeper penetration.

There is also the opposite, which is a form of sleeve, for men with big penises to help prevent pain for their partner.

If you are going to use any sex you should be sure to use plenty of lubricant to avoid any injuries and clean them well after use.

Every toy will come with a guide on how to clean it, but usually warm water and cleaner from the toy shop is ideal.

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