Men's hobbies MOST and LEAST attractive to women - Date Psychology survey

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Tasleem Gierdien

12 August 2025 | 12:35

And the most attractive hobby a man can have is... let's take it all with a pinch of salt, ok?

Men's hobbies MOST and LEAST attractive to women - Date Psychology survey

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A survey conducted by Date Psychology, which was originally published last year has resurfaced and sparked debates online.

The survey reveals which hobbies make men more attractive to women.

At the top of the list of hobbies that make men most attractive to women is: reading.

The survey listed 74 male hobbies. Women were subsequently required to designate the hobby as “attractive” or “unattractive” for a man to do and reading came out tops, with a staggering 98.2% of women rating it as an attractive hobby.

Learning foreign languages, playing an instrument, cooking, and woodworking rounded out the top five.

Painting, writing, gardening, and photography also rated well, indicating that creativity is also alluring.

Conversely, it appears that interest in online activities is extremely unattractive to women, with “the manosphere", arguing online, gambling, watching porn all scoring dismally low marks.

Also, crypto, anime, cosplay, wearing makeup, clubbing, drinking, smoking, marijuana and cigars, and debating were similarly rated as unattractive by more than two-thirds of women.

Number one on the list of least attractive things to women is: comic books.

Here are some snippets of the study. 

Top 15 most attractive hobbies to women...

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Image: Reddit screengrab

Top 15 least attractive hobbies to women...

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Image: Reddit screengrab

However, there are lovers and critics of this survey making their feelings clear on this online.

Some say, "... the top of the list are all creative, physically active, or intellectually stimulating activities,” one defender declared. “The things on the bottom of the list are primarily about checking out and escapism.”

“Obviously, everyone enjoys a mix, but the idea of a person who does more of the top list items, who makes stuff, learns stuff, and is generally active and engaged, is going to be more attractive than someone who isn’t,” they added.

Friedman says, "take this with a pinch of salt, everyone."

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