Men and sex: 'Socialised to always be ready, with an amazing, hard erection'

Aubrey Masango interviews Dr Heather Blaylock, a Medical Doctor with a special interest in sexual health.

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Masculinity often gets depicted as being solely fixated on sex, with men portrayed as constantly grappling with their impulses and desires in the pursuit of sexual conquests.

While these stereotypes are pervasive, it's essential to question their validity.

Men can demonstrate strength and vulnerability simultaneously, says Blaylock, who emphasises the importance of open and honest communication.

"Society has socialised men to think that they always must be ready for sex and they will always have this amazing hard erection."

-Dr Heather Blaylock

"How we've been socialised is going to be very difficult to change."

-Dr Heather Blaylock

"Sex for men, it related to their confidence, their self worth and their need for validation." 

-Dr Heather Blaylock

"To have a good, healthy sex life is paramount for everybody."

-Dr Heather Blaylock, Medical Doctor

"The best sex that you're ever going to have with your partner is if the two of you can communicate."

-Dr Heather Blaylock, Medical Doctor

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